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My wife and I met working at a bar together. At that time she was married and I was a single father. She was going through a tough time with her now ex husband. We became good friends while working together. We would talk while cleaning up after closing time. We talked about everything. I tried to help her fix her marriage. She was still young, 12yrs younger than me, I didn't want to see her go through the heartbreak of a divorce. As we talked we got closer and i started to fall for her. I didn't tell her how i felt at the time because i new she was married. When she decided to try and work everything out with her husband he didn't want her talking to me anymore. We lost contact for a while. A little over two years ago she called me up and asked to meet with me at the same bar we worked at. We met up and had fun together. I found out she had finaly left her husband but she had a new boyfriend. We stayed friends. One night several months ago she tells me she doesn't have a boyfriend so she starts coming over more often. We both used the excuse that it was so our kids could play together. Several months ago we went out one night just to go play some pool. She spent night at my house. We didn't do anything at all; we were both pretty drunk. Several days later we were talking online through IM and she was complaing about having a bad day. I kept hinting to her how i felt. She just wasn't getting it. She told me to just spit out what i was trying to say; so i told her how i felt. She didn't talk at all for almost 10min. After that we started spending more time together. Several months ago we were sitting in my room talking about our feelings for each other. Neither on of us wanted to get married again. As we sat there talking we discused our feelings. I told her that I had felt that way since we worked together in the bar. She admitted that she had fallen for me then also. After serveral months of talking and going out. one night talking we started discussing marriage. She agread to marry me and we're now getting married in October. We both agree that the old saying; "If you love something let it go. If it returns? It's yours forever, If it doesn't; It was never meant to be."; is true. We both love each other very much and couldn't be happier.
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